I am often asked if feng shui knowledge can improve a person’s sex life. The answer is YES and it can do so in a variety of ways.

1) There are house types where the basic energy indicates loneliness. When that factor gets reduced, with remedies, it frees the occupant to pursue or attract a relationship. It can also improve an existing relationship. This in turn, can enhance the sexual aspect of communication.

2) Other house types have very strong influences which make people argumentative. This type of energy can make an existing relationship so stressful and defensive that it undermines the desire for sex. When these physical irritants are removed, it increases the likelihood of having a harmonious attraction between people.

The negative energies that I have eluded to exist in a number of detectable forms.
• The structure or design can cause someone to feel isolated, angry or threatened.
• The colors and lighting of a room can create a subliminal atmosphere.
• The unseen magnetic field which must be remedied with 5-element theory, can reveal when occupants will have a variety of relationship problems.
(What you place in a room makes a difference, such as whether a person needs a
metal or wood bed frame.)
• Time cycle that the house may be experiencing. Sometimes the house is in a bad year or several-year period making it difficult for relationships.
• Personal incompatibility with the house. (When your house is not supportive for you personally).

3) Some house types are simply better or more conducive to relationships, sex, and romance. These houses possess energies which make it easy to attract sexual encounters–so much so– that married couples may need to use a feng shui remedy in order to TONE DOWN those impulses and not end up in outside affairs. Example: a house built after 1984, that faces Southwest (the whole structure), will have energy in its very center which implies that a woman could have a lot of boyfriends.

People continually ask, “What does a house that is good for romance look like?” The answer is that these house types do not “look” sexier than others. It is the unseen magnetic field which reveals the personality of the house. This is a mathematical formula.

To contrast, one house type that often contributes to loneliness is the one which faces South and built in the 1970’s. Depending on where the bedroom is located in this house, its over-riding influence for divorce could be very strong.

Other scenarios regarding sex and relationships can be predicted as well:
• House types where one or both spouses cheat on each other.
• House types where there is promiscuous sex.
• House types where the people are both lonely AND very sexual at the same time. I have seen this house type, where past occupants were known to be involved in prostitution or pornography. And interestingly, consistent with this house type are energies which imply legal problems and blood-related diseases.

It goes without saying that house types which are good for sexual opportunity are often easy to conceive children in, while the “lonely” house will often be inhabited by couples with fertility problems.

Author: Kartar Diamond

Company: Feng Shui Solutions (R)

From the Health and Personal Matters Blog Series